Attachment Parenting Activities in OC

OC Attachment Parenting Meetup.com group -
and South Orange County AP Meetup.com group -
activities calendar with park days, zoo, beach, etc., as well as an active message board to discuss with moms of a similar parenting philosophy.

Attachment Parenting International of OC -
monthly meetings on attachment parenting topics. Kids are welcome to attend. There's also a great leading library with attachment parenting books and resources.

La Leche League OC chapter- meetings with detailed information and Q & A about breastfeeding, and any infant or toddler related information. La Leche leaders are available by phone, as well, to answer any questions you may have.

June 28, 2010

Elimination Communication

AP Living Talk June 28, 2010
by Jeannie Lee

I. Definition of Elimination Communication (the EC spectrum)

II. My Story – started full-time at 3 mo., used cloth diapers, graduated at 23 mo.

III. Tools and Accessories
a. Potties – several, for easy access (I like BabyBjorn), the sink, the great outdoors (rule of thumb: go where it would be appropriate for a dog)
b. Easy-access clothing – split crotch pants, vests, leg warmers

IV. Getting Started (often you’ll use a combination of these techniques)
a. Timing – upon waking, every half hour or hour, depends on time of day
b. Intuition – you’ll develop a feeling
c. Cuing – a sound, like hissing or shushing or grunting for poos
d. Baby’s signals and cues – squirming, crying, arching back

V. Tips for Success (from Ingrid Bauer’s book)
a. Offer potty opportunity as soon as baby wakes up.
b. Always offer potty opportunity before going out.
c. Make regular pit stops en route.
d. Try to potty when you arrive.
e. Offer potty opp. whenever you undress baby (for bath, changing, or sleep).
f. Choose clothes and diapers that are easy and quick to remove.
g. If using diapers, try cloth diapers without covers.
h. Make a cuing sound anytime you notice your child going, even if it’s a miss.
i. Act quickly on the slightest thought or intuition about pottying.
j. If one thing isn’t working, try something different; stay flexible.
k. If you encounter challenges, continue offering regularly, and respect a “no.”
l. Avoid pressure; stay relaxed and patient.
m. Connect with other like-minded parents.

VI. Resources
a. Books
i. Diaper Free: The Gentle Wisdom of Natural Infant Hygiene by Igrid Bauer.
ii. The Diaper-Free Baby by Christine Gross-Loh
iii. Infant Potty Training by Laurie Boucke
b. Websites
i. http://www.diaperfreebaby.org
ii. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/diaperfreeoc
iii. www.womantalk.org (that’s me – search under the category of “elimination communication”)

To contact Jeannie, email her at" jeannie at womantalk dot org"

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